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We are so glad you have chosen Bethany Lutheran Church for your wedding! 
We look forward to assisting you in planning one of the most memorable 
days of your life. The Bethany Church Wedding Advisory Committee is 
co-directed by Kathey Bengtson and Kola Johnson. Please call them any 
time you have questions or concerns.

Kathey Bengtson (785) 227-2615  kathey-bengtson@fami.com
Kola Johnson    (785) 227-2921  ebayeffie@yahoo.com

SCHEDULING

    * Contact the church office (785) 227-2167 to secure your wedding date.

    * Contact the Pastor of Bethany Church

    * A member of the Wedding Advisory Committee will contact you to 
schedule a meeting at your convenience. During this meeting you will 
fill out a contact form and pay a reservation fee, which is 
non-refundable.


PASTOR

    * The Bethany Lutheran Church Pastor will preside at all weddings held 
here. Permission to have another pastor must be granted by the Executive 
Committee of the Church Council.
    * Premarital counseling by the Pastor is an essential part of the 
preparation for your marriage.

MUSIC

    * Because your Marriage Service is a service of worship in God's 
House, the music must therefore be carefully and discriminantly chosen. 
Music must be approved by the Pastor. Our Pastor or church organist 
will be glad to offer suggestions for appropriate music.
    * Bethany Church's organist will play for all weddings held at 
Bethany Church. Permission to use any other organist must be granted 
by the Executive Committee of the Church Council.
    * Soloists (vocal and instrumental) may offer special appropriate 
music for your wedding. They need to be in contact with the Pastor or 
organist of Bethany Church soon after the wedding is scheduled. Fees 
are up to the individual soloists. Bethany's organist can recommend 
soloists if you need suggestions.

FLOWERS / DECORATIONS

    * Wedding Candelabras are available for your use. There is a fee 
for the use of the candles. Please review your decorating plans 
with our Wedding Advisor.

PHOTOGRAPHY & OTHER GUIDELINES

    * In keeping with the solemnity of the Marriage Service, we ask 
that no flash photography be taken after the Processional and throughout 
the ceremony. Ushers should remind guests having cameras of this policy. 
If you have a printed bulletin, please include this request in it. Time 
exposures may be taken from the balcony during the service.
    * Discreet use of video cameras is acceptable

CAMERA / SOUND SYSTEMS

    * The Church's video equipment and/or sound system is available. Our 
Wedding Advisor will contact our trained camera/sound technician on your 
behalf.

BRIDE AND GROOM'S DRESSING ROOMS

    * Dressing rooms will be available for you.

USE OF BETHANY CHURCH'S WEDDING CROWN

    * Bethany's wedding crown, given in memory of Megan Meiers, is 
available for use. Our Wedding Advisor will contact Megan's parents 
on your behalf.

BUILDINGS AND GROUNDS

    * Please honor and respect our church building and grounds.
    * Please inform the members of your wedding party:
          o smoking is not permitted in the building
          o no alcoholic beverages are permitted.